Failure.... The part of success

Failure- the word itself scares us, when we are on our path to achieve our goals. Eventually, the most successful personalities had faced severe failure in their past times;but they had over come failure for the sake of their future. If you have to overcome failure than you must read my blog till end.

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As I mentioned above the word failure scares us when we are on our path to set our future. But readers we must understand that, failure is the first step towards success; we cannot omit this step and proceed further. Failures are the best lessons in our lives. They teaches us how to be careful from further and shows the true colours of the world. Failure shows us the mistake we had done and gives us the chance to avoid them further in any situation. So, when are on the path of success and we might have failure or we may face failure in future, we need to handle these situations in a smart and self-kind way instead of letting them to vicious self-beatings and to them dragging you down to negativity. Inspite, we should take failure as a boon in our way to success, by learning that to not repeat the same mistake which has led us to failure. I will to share some tips that have helped me to go through these situations. I hope they will be useful for you too.

1. First, Accept the situation.
Don't decline  that you have failed. Infact, accept it, yes it will hurt but then you will realise that what's your mistake. If you will reject it then you may never realise about your mistake and it will take a guilt in your mind about your failure. So accept that you have failed.
2. Remember: You are not a failure, even you had seen many failures.
Just because you have failed today or yesterday doesn't mean that you will fail the next time. Never fall for such thoughts that you'd failed then you're a failure. Infact this situation will not last longer, you have a whole life in front of you and the world is full of opportunities. So never think you're a failure.
3. Be constructive and learn from the situation.
Ask yourself such questions. Note you should ask positive questions only.
1. What's one thing I can learn from this?
2. How can I prepare myself to avoid the same mistake, to do better next time?
3. What I can change differently for next time.
4. Remind yourself: Anyone who wants to do things of value will fail for once.
Failure indicates taht you're going to go for a successful trait in future, that's why it is called a test too. The successful people's who had done valuable work in their life had also failed in their past times. So if you've failed then it's the first step  you have climbed up towards success.
5. Let it out into light.
If you've faced failure and it's hutting your confidence level than it may lead to depression. So you must let your regret know to your close people, who will help you out to conquer over this situation. By talking to someone about your disguise reliefs stress from your mind and let's in positive thoughts.
6. Find inspiration.
Take inspiration from the successful personalities who had also faced failure. It will help you to see from the mindset of those people who learnt and bought them out from failure.
7. Move forward again, don't get stuck in thinking about what happened.
Don't waste your precious time in thinking how you failed, just accept and look further about what you should do next. Make plans about your next step and make sure you won't repeat that same mistakes you have done before.
8. Take action on that plan, right after you've drawn it up.
Don't waste time thinking about your past. Infact, don't waste time in thinking that it will work or not, just before planning take a careful note about everything how it will work and what you have to do for that. So don't think about this in last it lowers your confidence level. Just take action.
9. Improve your self-esteem.
The most important thing is to improve your self-esteem. Everyone knows perseverance is the key to success. Just work hard, boostup your confidence, think that Yes I can do it. I shall not repeat the same mistake. And my determination is bigger than my failure. Don't let any self-limiting doubts conquer your mind. Improve your self-esteem thinking about your future, that if you're determined today than only the future will be in your hands.

So Readers, these were the tips and if you liked them then comment me below. Thanks for reading my blog till end. If you have any suggestions for my next topic then comment below and subscribe my blog for latest updates.